Licensed Professional Counselor · Author · Speaker
Learn to Love Yourself First — So you can live well and create all types of meaningful relationships
Darsha D. Clark, LPC has spent 25+ years helping people stop repeating unhelpful and harmful patterns of behavior. Her clients gain self-awareness and learn practical tools — all while receiving the accountability and compassion they need to make lasting change.
You've Been Taking Care of Everyone.
Who's Taking Care of You?
"Who is going to take care of me? Am I too much?”
“If I stop doing it all, no one else will do it.”
“Is it worth it? Do I want to risk being hurt again?”
“Can I really stop thinking and acting this way?”
“I really don’t have the time to focus on me, do I?”
Have you ever had any of those questions or thoughts?
Many of us have been there — and in that, you're in good company. Too many people have been taught to give until it hurts and then give some more. We weren't built to give and never receive. That's why fatigue, pain, worry, stress, anxiety, tears, anger, sadness, disappointment, and overwhelm so often show up when we least expect them.
Darsha would love to work together with you to improve your self-awareness, set and maintain boundaries, communicate your needs and wants, and create healthy, loving relationships of all kinds. This work is an act of love for yourself — and when you love and care for yourself better, everyone around you benefits too. It's not selfish work. It's necessary work.
You Don't Need Someone Telling You What To Do. You Need Practical Strategies Tailored For You.
Anybody can listen and offer advice. You can research tips and strategies on your own. But there's a difference between information and professional skill — the kind built through formal education and 25+ years of applying real knowledge in a tailored way for each person.
That's what Darsha brings to every session.
As a Licensed Professional Counselor, she is equipped to help people in a way AI and non-professionals simply can't. No two journeys look the same, and she meets each person exactly where they are — creating a comfortable, safe environment that is conducive to vulnerability and real growth.
She stands on every strategy she teaches, because she has lived them herself. And when you walk into a session with Darsha, you can finally stop trying to get it all together on your own.
Start Here – Ways To Work With Darsha
Whatever space you are in, you can take action today. Take the first step that’s best for you.
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Books & Journals
Practical, therapist-created books and journals you can start using tonight — including a new 12 - month journal for goal achievement available for pre-order
GROW AT YOUR PACE
Love Yourself First Course
A self-paced course to build the skills that change everything with a focus on communication, conflict, intimacy, and boundaries.
GO DEEPER
Therapy & One on One Support
Personal, one-on-one support to discover and work through what's really going on. Premarital counseling and couples counseling available.
FOR ORGANIZATIONS
Speaking & Training
Motivating and engaging, providing real life strategies with immediate application for participants at your events, training, church, or organization.
Not Sure Where To Start?
Just getting curious? Pick up a book or journal. Ready to grow at your own pace? Start the course. Want personal support? Let's talk about therapy. However you begin, you're in the right place.
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Adventures in Love
A thought-provoking, action-oriented workbook for couples and individuals building a love that lasts.
Real Words From
Real People
FOR THE BOOKS
In Adventures in Love, Darsha Clark offers honest, no-nonsense relationship insight drawn from years of therapeutic experience and real-life marriage wisdom. A true straight shooter, she delivers meaningful guidance with humor, warmth, and refreshing authenticity. I would recommend this book to newlyweds, seasoned couples, or anyone seeking support and clarity in their relationship.
DeAndrea Woods
I thoroughly enjoyed going through this workbook with my husband!! The lessons were so practical, and the activities were not long; however, we were encouraged to revisit a few things, which really improved our communication, and I feel closer to my partner going through the different adventures together. So far, we are enjoying every bit of this powerful book. Kudos to the author for sharing her best practices and lessons she learned as a therapist and in her own marriage.
Shanine Young
This was a practical, down-to-earth guide that leaves you feeling capable and inspired to improve your relationships. Not just with a romantic partner, but with yourself, your friendships, and others. Darsha has a thoughtful tone as she writes, but she also gives us the callouts we need to make the necessary changes for healing. I appreciate how gentle and authoritative she is while holding our hand through the process and adventure of love.
Liz Bullard
FOR THERAPY & COACHING
I have had the privilege of knowing and working alongside Darsha, and her character and professionalism are exceptional. As a mental health therapist, she has a unique ability to truly see people and guide them through even the hardest challenges with clarity, care, and confidence. She leads with integrity, balancing compassion with honest, tough love while consistently encouraging growth and resilience. Anyone who works with or learns from her can trust that they are in capable, ethical, and deeply supportive hands.
LaNise Thrasher
I have been seeing Darsha for over a year and a half. She is, above all, an excellent listener. I feel safe and respected when I talk with her. She seems to have an elephant's memory, remembering things I've told her in the past and connecting them with what is going on today in ways that are always beneficial and supportive. Darsha always brings solid, real-life strategies to help me handle challenges and move forward toward my mental health goals. Darsha is warm and wonderful. I'm so grateful to have the opportunity to work with her and would recommend her wholeheartedly to anyone struggling with mental health issues!
Current Client
I have known "Darsha D" for about two years, and my life will never be the same. Though Darsha's professionalism is what initially connected us, her quick wit, knowledge, transparency, and love for God are what have made us friends. Darsha is about as real as they come. She demonstrates honesty and integrity and is truly passionate about mental health and relationships - of all kinds.
A. Renee Jacobs
FOR SPEAKING & COMMUNITY
I recently heard Mrs. Clark speak at a seminar and was impressed by her authenticity and ability to engage the attendees. She spoke to mental health issues in a way that was relatable and compassionate. She appears to have a true heart for her profession as well as a love of God
Gloria F.
I’m so excited about this new book that’s coming, and I believe it’s going to be a series! I will be getting every one of them. I’ve known this beautiful lady for a little over 20 years and when I met Darsha, she came to my rescue in so many ways. She embraced me with love, kindness, laughter, and understanding. Her teaching and advice are almost like homework! She’ll have you thinking deeper within. A conversation about a relationship with Darsha makes you look in the mirror to get a better understanding about what could be going on. She can be gentle and that’s what makes it easy to listen and understand her! I’m just so glad that we’re able to get more of what’s needed from her series of books to come! I’ve always said so many people need this!
Therese Moreland
I have admired Darsha’s relationship with her family for a while now, and how she and her husband interact. It is so sweet and warm, especially in a world where relationships are not spoken of highly. They are a breath of fresh air. I have known Darsha for a few years now. We have been in Bible classes and worship services together, and we have volunteered together. I love the fact that she has this great joy for positive relationships; she lights up when talking about them. She has given me great advice as a single older woman. I can not wait to purchase her book.
Deborah G.
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